Prerequisites:

1. At least 90 days of sobriety

2. Have fully disclosed the information about your past behaviors to your wife unless she has requested that you not share that information

3. Purchase the book:

Help Her Heal: An Empathy Workbook for Sex Addicts to Help their Partners Heal by Carol Juergensen Sheets

Help Her Heal is available as a paperback or Kindle version on Amazon:

Link to buy:
Help Her Heal: An Empathy Workbook for Sex Addicts to Help their Partners Heal: Sheets, Carol Juergensen, Katz, Allan J., Bordey, Chris: 9781733922203: Amazon.com: Books

Testimonials:

The following Testimonials were shared by participants who have completed the 12-week course with Deborah held in 2024 and 2025

"This class has helped me understand my wife's trauma better through you. It has also helped me feel like I'm not alone in this process of helping her heal. It has helped me see, feel and understand The Rock better, that is to say the Savior's role in my healing and my wife's as well. This course has been exactly what I've needed, and I am recommending it to a brother-in-law." - Dave

"I think it was absolutely critical that a woman is the facilitator for this. We don't speak the same language. Our brains don't follow the same neural pathways. You've opened my eyes to so many things. I just have to say thank you." - Brian

"The woman's perspective to me was the best part of the course. It really gave insights that only a woman could bring, and also someone who has gone through it and willing to share was humbling, and I think was such a breath of fresh air and testimony of faith in the power of the Atonement." 

- Jerry

"I would definitely recommend this course. I feel like the content is so specific and exactly what people need to make marriage work. Having you facilitate the course provided such great insight that I probably could have thought for years and never got to." - Evan

"Deborah, the way you facilitated this group was spot on and your perspective added a whole new depth to where my wife is at and how I can help her so thank you". - Jon

"It has been helpful in seeing things in a whole new light, the only problem is that I wish I had access to this years ago. I have never heard empathy explained this way. I would recommend the group not only if you are in bad shape but even if you are in good shape in case something comes up, you can empathize in disagreements or conflict. I like you facilitating this course, you are non-judgmental and understanding. - Q

"It's always been helpful to me to get the woman's perspective. It also provides hope because you've done the work and are in a better place and I realize that it is a possibility." - Jim

Facilitator: Deborah Cobb

Deborah has been facilitating betrayal trauma groups for women for 5 years and Help Her Heal groups for the last year, as well as working with individuals and couples as they heal after betrayal.

She is a Certified Trauma Informed Life Coach, APSATS Trained and Embodied Processing Practitioner and is currently attending graduate school to acquire a Master's degree in Counseling Psychology to become a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California.

She has been married for 26 years and has experienced the relational work needed to heal and move forward after betrayal.

She is passionate about partnering with God in providing education and tools for men and women to move forward in their healing and recovery so they can choose to act according to truth.

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IMPORTANT NOTE! YOUR WEEKLY PAYMENT

STARTS **ON THE DAY YOU REGISTER**

YOU WILL ONLY RECEIVE 12 WEEKLY CHARGES

UNTIL YOUR COURSE IS PAID IN FULL.

12 payments

$50 per week